Reminiscing: good times and a few (of many) flamenco friends from Cafe Citron

Karina, Miguelito, Andrea and Cheryl. June 28, 2004
I know it's been more than a week since I last blogged. What can I say? In some ways, I'm just an ordinary human being in that I'll have my occasional periods of non-inspiration. I think I already mentioned that around this time last year, I had blogged 45 days in a row! That's pretty damn good considering there's only so much a person can think of something to blog about the DC flamenco scene on a daily basis. Then again, some of the entries were just simple blow-by-blow descriptions of each day's events accompanied by a bunch of fabulous pics. But c'mon...I may be wise and experienced in some ways, but I'm not a philosopher. I can't expect myself to come up with something profound or thought-provoking every single day.
Anywayz, it's 11:45pm on a Wednesday, my night off from flamenco gigs. I just finished chatting with a dancer friend and we just so happened to be talking about my blog. (her name has been changed for privacy reasons and to add a little intrigue...hehe)
dancer_friend: i miss your blogs. its been a while :(
miguelito: thanks #######. i miss my blogs too. i actually enjoying reading them. it's awesome how i sometimes include so much detail that it transports me back to all those good times.
dancer_friend I enjoy reading them they are wonderful what have you been up too lately?
miguelito: thanks #######. tonight, you are the reason i'm inspired to blog again. i just have to come up with a topic...
dancer_friend mmm. you are so good at writing that you can write about anything and you just make it interesting
miguelito: hehe...thanks. i just try to keep it real, so to speak. if i try too hard to write, then it sounds like i'm making stuff up to make it sound good. but if i just write in a conversational style and don't edit or censor myself too much then it comes across as genuine...which it is. and besides when i write a lot, i don't have time to edit and make everything grammatically perfect and formal.
dancer_friend aah I see. you just have that gift
miguelito: it's my secret to writing....shhhhhh! :-)
dancer_friend I will have to use it and see if it works for me! what are you up to tomorrow?
When I interviewed Ulrika Frank a few weeks ago, she asked me if I ever get tired doing tablaos gigs all the time. The answer is yes: I do get physically and mentally exhausted. But I still love it. Artistically it's very satisfying for me. Besides the obvious technical and artistic challenges of flamenco alone, there is the professional challenge of being able to summon the inspirational energy on a nightly basis--or at least give the impression that I am inspired. When I stop and think about it for a second, it is pretty amazing that I can perform every night and somehow get in the flamenco mood I'd say 90% of the time.
I could go on and get into a discussion comparing the challenges of tablao flamenco versus the challenges of theatre flamenco, but I'll save that for a future blog entry. Or maybe I'll interview some of my fellow tablao veterans.

Madiha, Gisele, Liliane and Ivana. August 23, 2004 11:17pm (photo by Maynol)
One of the drawbacks of performing all the time at night is not being able to go out with my friends or make new friends at normal hours for going to clubs and parties. So aside from the friends I make amongst the flamencos in DC, I tend to befriend the people I meet at the many venues where I perform.

Miguelito, Alejandra and Katerine. January 19, 2004 10:58pm
So a good number of my friends do come out to my shows a lot but I can't expect them to come every single week--hello? they've got a life outside of flamenco too. And sometimes weeks or months go by where I don't see some of them which is totally understandable. But the least I could do is call them up every now and then just to say hi to let them know I appreciate their friendship and that I haven't forgotten about them.
This past weekend, one particular friend called me up out of the blue. I hadn't talked to her in a while. Her name showed up on Caller ID of course, but I just picked up and said "Hola" knowing that she spoke Spanish. I was just playing around. But I can remember when I got my first cell phone ten years ago. People were always a bit shocked when I picked up and the first thing I said was "Hello (insert name of caller)."

Miguelito with Sarika (from India). October 25, 2004 9:36pm (photo by Nancy)
So we both caught up on each other's lives since we last saw each other. And as I spoke to her, I made a mental note to visit my blog entries from 2004 to reminisce about when I first met this friend. I don't know what it was exactly about myself that year, but 2004 was when I made a LOT of new friends at Cafe Citron. There was something or someone that inspired me to want to come out of my shell that year. Talk about overcoming shyness (I still am a bit shy though), I even came up with the courage to ask this one girl to dance with me on the bar at Citron one night. And yeah, I did meet a lot of girls and few a guys but I didn't take too many pics of the guys. Deal with it! ![]()
So for today's blog, I just randomly picked a few pics of some of my female friends that I first met that particular year (and just by coincidence they all happen to be very beautiful, hehe) but it was hard to narrow it down and I know I left some out. My deepest apologies but here's a piece of trivia that I know will astound you: I have published in my blog 1,484 pics from my shows at Cafe Citron from the past five and half years I've performed there! Unless you're a professional photographer, that's quite a large number of archived pics to sift through. But thank God I figured out a manageable filing system to help me quickly find a specific pic from a specific place from a specific time frame. It's not 100% fool-proof but I'm able to locate just about any photo from any gig most of the time. Perhaps someday when I grow old (which will be never
), I'll write a book about the history of the DC flamenco scene and I'll have the largest collection of historical photos to choose from.

Cafe Citron regular and flamenco dance student Sonia with Miguelito. November 1, 2004 9:16pm (photo by Jeff)
Some of my closer friends know I had kind of a rough week last week. We all have our rough times and it was my turn.
But I survived it, thanks to the support of a few of my friends who patiently listened to me as I blew off steam. You know who you are. And you know I all love you and appreciate you with all my heart.

Jenifer Jaketic (from Spain) and Miguelito. Jenifer came to Citron back in August. November 8, 2004
Spring is here, yay! I just wish Mother Nature would make up her f#*&ing mind and decide whether to make it cold or hot. What's it gonna be. Make up your mind already!
I just have to say that the few warm days we've had so far made me want to get out of the house early in the morning---part of the reason why I haven't blogged much lately. Just being outside breathing fresh air, soaking up the sun rays and picking up on the positive energy from my fellow Washingtonians enjoying the outdoors like myself was enough to get me out of my grumpy mood from last week. So it's like 1:06am now and I should get to bed so I can wake up early and enjoy yet another gorgeous day. Ciao for now!
P.S. this blog is dedicated to "Lunch Girl" who knew just the right "buttons" to push to make me want to blog again. (I made up that nickname for her just now cuz we usually chat online when she's on her lunch break at work.) I also dedicate this blog to "Sobrina" who so patiently put up with me last week as I went through my bad moods. You rock! ![]()


















































































